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Fairness is
playing by the rules, taking turns, sharing and listening to what others have to say.
Fair people do not take advantage of others. They consider all sides before
they decide, and they don't blame other people for something they did not do.
What Parents Can Do To Promote Fairness:
- Children become sensitive to issues of fairness very early, especially when they are on
the receiving end. Be sure to teach that fairness is as important when you are giving as
well as getting. Role playing (pretending) can be very effective if you put your child on
both sides of the situation.
- Be mindful about treating children fairly and not showing favorites.
- Encourage fairness by praising demonstrations of sharing and taking turns, and by using
the words "you are being very fair."
- Listening to your child is a matter of both fairness and respect. Model good listening.
- Be very careful not to accuse or punish a child unfairly. Remember that a punishment
that is too harsh for the unwanted action will seem unfair to your child.
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